The Bump finally posted a great article with feedback from fellow preemie moms on the board. You can find the article here.
Many times, people will say something to a preemie mama and to them it's totally innocent. But to us, it can be a low blow and sting badly. I know in the past, I've heard some of these comments, and while I would either laugh or ignore them, they still stuck in my mind and hurt.
Hopefully the article will make people more aware of what it's like to be a preemie mama, and people will think twice before making comments like these in the future.